Start by licking slowly and then increase speed.
Combine stimulation - use a finger or vibrator to stimulate her clitoris while you lick her labia or finger her gspot while you lick and suck on her clitoris. You can even finger her anus, but if you do, remember not to bring that finger back to her vaginal area so that you do not expose her vagina or your mouth to harmful bacteria.
Use the heat of your breath to your advantage. Part of what makes oral sex so intimate for a woman is knowing that your mouth is warming her. You can use a warming lubricant for added effect.
If you use a flavored lubricant, use one that does not have glycerin or sugar as they can contribute to yeast infections. The one we most recommend is the System Jo line. It tastes the best of all the flavored lubricants we have tried, it has healthy ingredients that will not cause health problems and it is not sticky like many of the others.
Women are often very self conscious about the vagina, so make sure to tell her how much you love her lovely vulva and show enthusiasm while doing it. Allow yourself to become ravenous for her and she will enjoy it even more. Attitude during sex is key to heightening desire and passion.
Penetrate her with your tongue. Just because you will not reach her gspot, don’t think that it is not pleasurable to have your tongue thrusting in and out of the vagina opening. There are rich nerve endings there and it feels wonderful!
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