Sunday, March 26, 2017

Grace and Frankie: Sex Toys For Elderly Women - Vybrant Ménage à Moi

If you are a fan of the hit show on Netflix Grace and Frankie starring Jane Fonda and Lily Tomlin, then you are well aware that they are tackling the topic of sex toys for elderly women and launching their fictional company Vybrant with their first Ménage à Moi vibrator. 

There are all kinds of adventures this third season but it has left many viewers wondering if there is such a sex toy and if so where can you get one? After all, the fictional sex toy distributor Purple Orchid in the show is not selling them. 

If you want to learn more and are okay with some spoilers, check out the inside scoop into the real life review of the Ménage à Moi by Vybrant-

Saturday, March 25, 2017

New Fictional & True Erotic Stories

Free Fictional & True Erotic Stories
Finding free erotica online that offers a level of quality without a bunch of pop-ups or having to click through an insane number of pages can be difficult and that is why we have a very direct website that is no-nonsense when it comes to getting to the nitty gritty. We post edited, true, erotic stories that our web visitors submit to us and update with the latest so that you always have something new to read and enjoy.

These fictional and true sex stories are written by your every-day ordinary person whom you may have even seen at the grocery store today without suspecting for a moment what erotic encounters they had experienced or were about to enjoy.

When we first began our erotic story section of our sexual health site many people doubted that we would find many people willing to share their stories but we have quite a large number of erotic story submissions and we offer $5 store credits to enjoy through our nontoxic sex toy store for those who submit them as our way of saying thank you.

Read more about how you can submit your own erotic story whether it is true or fictional and see the vast selection of all of the erotic stories available on our site right now.

Wednesday, March 1, 2017

Things To Consider BEFORE Buying A Hollow Dildo

We receive a great deal of questions about what options are available for erectile dysfunction (ED) and that is why we would first really encourage you to read this article that we put together on such products so that you are better educated about what to expect-

If you read our article you will learn that one of the issues that couples have with hollow dildos is that they tend to be quite large on the outside because they have to accommodate men on the inside. This means that the dildos are all going to be on the larger side of almost 2 inches in diameter. Because most women prefer about 1.5 inches in diameter these hollow dildos are often found to be too large for them to enjoy as much as they and their partner had hoped. 

Size is subjective so we cannot really say if the larger size will work for you as some couples really like them, but we wanted to give you a heads up on this so that you are educated and empowered to make the best choice for you and your partner.

The larger size of the dildo is why we offer a two hole harness that is specifically for men who have ED. It is called the Spareparts Deuce and what makes this harness so pleasing and comfortable for couples is that it allows a man to go through one hole so that he can still have skin to skin contact with his partner. The reason we mention this is because a hollow dildo will not allow this, in fact, it completely cuts a man off from his partner and provides him with no movement or stimulation at all. They are typically rigid inside and have nothing in them to stimulate him. Whereas the two hole harness allows him to be able to receive stimulation by rubbing against his partner and feel their arousal.

In addition, the two hole harness allows you to use any dildo that your desire that has a flared base and is harness compatible. This means that you can choose the color, shape and size of the dildo so that it is comfortable and pleasurable for the receiver of it. The most popular dildos for couples who use the two hole harness are our Tantus line where you can choose the color, style, shape and size that is right for you-

If you have never bought a dildo before, make sure to read our "How to Choose a Dildo" article to help you determine what features are things you will want for yourself based on your own preferences-

There are only two styles of the two hole harnesses and we have them both which I will link for you below-

The Spareparts Deuce is the most popular of them and it is an outstanding, comfortable, durable harness that will accommodate most any dildo-

If you still wish to go the hollow dildo route, our hollow dildos are below and have all the dimensions of each one with reviews and more information here-

Sunday, December 4, 2016

Holiday Sale on Sex Toys

Holiday Sex Toy Sale
Check out our Holiday Sale on Romantic & Sensual Products

Nontoxic and healthy as well as pleasurable. Enjoy 15% off and a FREE Sex Toy Storage Bag with ANY shipped order!

Simply Use Coupon Code: HOLIDAY when checking out to apply this special offer.

Saturday, December 3, 2016

We-Vibe Sync: Reviews & Sale

We-Vibe Sync Reviews & Sale
When our website visitors call they often ask what our customers are saying about some of our new sex toys and the We-Vibe Sync is no different. 

We have been amazed at how fast they are selling and so far customers have been reporting to us that they love the new adjustable neck feature and that is really the main difference between the new We-Vibe Sync and the older We-Vibe 4 Plus model. 

Because everyone has varied shaped and sized anatomy it is difficult for a sex toy to hit the right spots on everyone... until now. 

The new We-Vibe Sync allows you to adjust the neck and arms to be angled in a way that will give each user a customizable fit which in turn allows one to have the dual vibrators perfectly stimulating both the gspot and the clitoris. 

Check out what our customers have said in their reviews, get it on sale and watch videos that further explain how the new We-Vibe Sync works and can spice things up for you and your lover. 

Thursday, November 3, 2016

Womanizer Reviews: A Revolutionary New Sex Toy

A review of the Womanizer sex toys along with insights from customer reviews.

Sex. It’s all been done before when it comes to what people can do to one another, but in the world of sex toys, there are so many new experiences to be had with the increasing technology that many adult toys have to offer. A new type of sex toy that has come to the market is bringing a unique sensual sensation to the clitoris and is blowing many women’s hair back when it comes to amazing sex stimulation. A new type you say? What does it do that is so different?

First, let’s get something out of the way before I tell you about what this little gem is… the terrible name choice. Of all things, this product that is designed for women is called the Womanizer. Yeah, not a very feminist way to go on naming this baby. When the developers of this sex toy (based out of Germany) came up with the name they were probably not aware of the potential negative social stigma the name might draw for a sex toy which is actually empowering to women. Just goes to show nothing is totally perfect.

That being said, the Womanizer is a very unique, patented sex toy by a company called Epi24 USA LLC and not only is it effective, it can even help women who have a difficult time climaxing or who have vibrator burn-out. So let’s dive into what makes the baby so unique based on customer reviews.

As many women know vibrators have long been making having orgasms easy, quick and allows women to improve their sexual health and the intensity of their orgasms by increasing blood flow to the genitals.  Vibrations range in low to high levels of power but also two distinct types of vibration. The low pitch, rumbly style vibrator and the high pitch, smooth vibrator. As subjective as sex toys are many women have a certain type of vibrator style that they prefer and with consumers getting more and more savvy they can typically indicate what type of vibe they are seeking.

The Womanizer Pro
The Womanizer, on the other hand, is not a vibrator, however, and that is where this sex toy gets a little confusing for most people. It does have a suction cup end that looks like it provides suction, but it is not a clitoral pump either so that further adds to the confusion of exactly what this sex toy does in bringing women to orgasm and intensely I might add. So, if it is not a vibrator and not a suction pump then what is it?

The Womanizer provides what the manufacturer refers to as air pulses that stimulate the clitoris similar to suction and vibration all at the same time. It brings blood flow directly to the clitoris and it can make a woman orgasm in less than 60 seconds because it is so concentrated in stimulation. Of course, the Womanizer has different settings and speeds so you can start off slowly and build to more intensity but even on lower speeds and settings it and feel like a celebration just for the clitoris.

When you first turn on the Womanizer you may think it is not even working, in fact, many people think it is defective or a weakling because they are so used to vibrators that shake. However, if you put your little pinkie up to the suction cup opening and seal it off you will feel the stimulation quite easily and be assured that this is just a different type of sex toy then you may be used to.

The suction cup style opening goes over the clitoris and creates a seal at the base of it. It is best used with a water based lubricant to increase comfort and sensation. Once the clitoris is inside the fun begins, but make no mistake about it, you will want to start using lower speeds and settings as it can be quite intense the more you move up in intensity even for the power queens that love their vibrators strong.

What is interesting about the Womanizer is that it is something a woman can use for vibrator burn-out. So what does that mean? Vibrator burn-out is when you have used a very powerful vibrator or even an average vibrator for too long and have now become a bit numb to the sensation. Women who have experienced this know that it is very difficult to climax once you have gotten to this point. Think of it like when someone scratches your back. At first, it feels amazing, then it starts to become just soothing, then it loses its stimulating effect and finally it can almost become irritating if done for too long. The same thing applies to a vibrator. It is not a permanent sensation, rather a temporary effect of over stimulation.

The Womanizer actually works well based on customer reviews if a woman is experiencing vibrator fatigue and can help bring a woman to climax even if she has become somewhat numb with overstimulation. This means it is certainly a nice sexual tool to have in one’s toy box if for nothing more than to help a woman overcome that frustration. Of course, the Womanizer is fabulous on its own but having it able to help make it to the mountaintop makes it a keeper.

The other thing that the Womanizer can do is help women who have a difficult time climaxing because it is so concentrated and brings blood flow directly to the clitoris. This can be helpful for women who have female sexual dysfunction as it provides the possibility of having orgasms which in turn helps to increase the intensity of orgasms, increase libido (sex drive) making it easier for women who struggle with such issues. This is especially common with women going through perimenopause and menopause as well as women with vulvodynia, vaginismus and other areas of female sexual dysfunction and customer feedback has confirmed this.

Of course there are no guarantees when it comes to sex toys as all of them are based on a subjective experience of the user, but, the Womanizer is a game changer when it comes to sex toys for women and offers and exciting option that has yet to be experienced in any other sexual product for women.

For customer reviews and to see where you can get it on sale make sure to check it out at as they have provided not just helpful details about the womanizer, but also how to properly care for it through information such as what are the best lubricant to use on the Womanizer as well as cleaning and storage tips.  

Plus, a little coupon such as this will help give you another 10% off your entire order if you get it there. The coupon code is HW0519 and will allow you to get it at a nice discount.

The Womanizer

Friday, October 14, 2016

Funny Stories Of People Who Dream Of Being A Porn Star

The inside dirt on porn applicants and they crazy things they say and do.

As a mental health therapist and sex educator, I wrote an article several years ago on what it really takes to get into the adult entertainment industry with the intention of helping people to realize that it is not something to be taken lightly. While I am not personally involved with the porn industry, I do work with many different professionals in all spectrums of the adult industry to provide educational resources, so it was a topic I was able to provide helpful information on as well as important considerations. 
With so many people getting involved in amateur porn and other types of porn without thinking through the consequences of being publically tied to permanently documented sex acts, there may certainly be a recipe for future problems if not thought out well. These choices may dramatically impact future relationships and career choices making it an important issue for those considering getting involved.

What I did not expect was to have my “How to Become a Porn Star” article go viral and for so many people to start contacting my sexual health company (which has nothing to do with porn) begging to have us help them get into the adult entertainment industry. We clearly state in the article several times that we are not porn producers and not to contact us about getting a job in porn; yet, over the years we still get contacted daily by people desperate to get into the porn industry and the applications have become a constant source of humor for us. While some of the messages we receive are in truth somewhat sad or even vile; others are downright hilarious. Below is a taste of what we have seen over the years.

Examples of The Types of People Who Apply to be a Porn Star-

The Naïve Narcissist

Surprisingly, many porn applicants are under the false impression that the adult industry is desperate for people to be in porn and that someone who is actually willing to do it is akin to finding the Hope Diamond. Emails with comments such as “Alright, I guess I will do it,” and “I have thought this over and I suppose you can sign me up,” are rather amusing.  We will often joke that we should send the imaginary private porn jet right away to go pick them up and have the sexy-time limo standing by because hold onto your hats…. we found someone who is willing to be in porn! Alert the media!

The Sad Sack-

Typically, these sad stories most often seem to come in from countries in South Asia and the Middle East with tales of heartbreaking poverty and a willingness to do anything to make money. This includes them confessing that they are willing to do what they believe is selling their soul to the devil by getting into porn. There are usually indications that they are financially desperate and they just need us to arrange for travel to the USA and to pay them the millions they hope to make by doing porn. Much like the Naïve Narcissist types they often think that the adult industry is just holding out for people like them to have sex so they can film it and make them into an A-list porn star.

The Pervert-

These messages are typically by disturbed people who describe sexual acts they are willing to do which are highly immoral and illegal (and should be) such as bestiality and child pornography. Frankly, we feel especially mentally violated when we get these emails and report them to the proper authorities. We can assure you that those in the mainstream adult entertainment industry don’t want anything to do with such people and want nothing more for them to seek professional help. In fact, Alec Helmy, a strong leader in the adult industry who owns Xbiz, also founded the Association of Sites Advocating Child Protection (, which works closely with law enforcement through an international reporting tip line and other resources.

The Unsolicited Dick Pic Guy-

Many men forgo sending in any relevant information and decide that sending an unsolicited picture of their genitals will do the trick. After all, many of them already visually sexually assault people on dating and other apps with unsolicited dick pics all the time; so, they figure in their little pea brains…  why not for a job in porn? After speaking with many of the largest porn studio staff and owners they say that is pretty common to get these and not something they desire. There are a few reasons for not doing this in addition to common sense and decency-

  •  No one wants to see your junk when you are applying for a job… yeah, even porn studios... at least not yet. Trust me when I say they are not impressed. They have seen it all and until they ask you for pictures specifically of your genitals… do not send them. A professional cover letter and resume is actually something they would prefer with pertinent information for the job. As for pictures, send those of you in a bathing suit or lingerie with an indication that nude pictures are available should they have interest. SOLICITED full body pics come later.
  •  Men typically have a snowball’s chance in hell when it comes to getting in porn. Unless it is gay porn, with a specific niche, men are typically seen as a prop and nothing more. Don’t get me wrong, gay porn is also challenging to get into but a bit less so than straight porn. Also keep in mind that men are not paid as much and truth be known, they are typically only considered if they have a preexisting relationship with someone who works for the porn studio. Furthermore, they have to be liked by the female contracted talent. If a man is chosen, porn studios will hire them over and over again rather than employ new men as it is a safer choice with regard to security, STDs and performance issues to use limited partners.
  • It is not just about the look of your manhood. You will have to have orgasms on command, get erect, stay erect and show a great deal of stamina so performance is key. Most men are not up for the task and the porn studios know that so your dick pic means very little and even more so if it is not wanted in the first place.

The “I Like/Love Sex” Nitwit-

Another of the porn applicant types that are humorous are those that think that because they like or love sex they are ideal for the job. They say things such as “I know that I am perfect for the job because I really like having sex.” Seriously, this is your best reason for a porn studio to hire you? Considering that the mass majority of the entire human population enjoys sex we would have to say this is not going to make you stand out.  Just no.

The Dreamer-

Oddly, we have gotten a large number of emails from people who say that being in porn has always been a dream of theirs. It makes you imagine them day dreaming of standing at a podium at the Xbiz or AVN Awards thanking everyone for making their porn dreams come true. One guy begged us not to “break his dreams” and turn him down. Another said that it was this or he was going to go work for an airline. We shudder to think of what he must be doing in the cockpit these days.

The Serious Candidate

The people who are serious about getting into the porn industry do their homework first. They understand that it is a job and that one must be professional and careful not to get scammed because, unfortunately, there are some unscrupulous types that pose as adult talent agencies and porn studios who take advantage of people. There are financial scams and even things that can jeopardize one’s health and safety. It is why one must be educated about this BEFORE they even begin approaching porn studios or adult entertainment agencies.  

Porn Studio Directory & Contact Information

A great resource to get started if one is serious is through the site which provides helpful and free education on these matters as well as legitimate adult industry resources that you can contact porn studios through the directories provided on the site.

Lisa S. Lawless. Ph.D. is the founder and C.E.O. of Holistic Wisdom, Inc. which is a company that provides sexual health and wellness education, resources as well as products. She is also the founder of the National Association for the Advancement of Science & Art in Sexuality (NAASAS) which is an educational organization for sexual health professionals and features an academy as well as a safe sexual products campaign.

Grace and Frankie: Sex Toys For Elderly Women - Vybrant Ménage à Moi

If you are a fan of the hit show on Netflix  Grace and Frankie  starring Jane Fonda and Lily Tomlin, then you are well aware that they are ...